There is no reason to get stressed out, go into debt, or feel anxiety about holiday or birthday gift giving. We understand how wonderful it feels to give presents and watch a child open them. Thoughtful giving can make the experience wonderful for everyone.
Aimee Phleger, Developmental Specialist and Early Intervention Services Group Coordinator reminds us “Fewer toys can mean more focused play, fewer distractions, a calmer and less chaotic environment that allows children to be more creative and curious in their exploration.”
Considering that each family has budget, space, and traditions to consider when thinking about children’s gifts. As young families are starting traditions, they can set themselves up for success.
Options as your gift giving list expands
- Gift experiences – When asked “what would the kids like for a gift?” suggest an experience. A day at the zoo, park, fair, etc. – Membership to a museum – Tickets to a ballgame or performance – Put together a box with items and gift a day of baking/reading/anything.
- Wish list of only the most wanted three or four gifts – instead of circling every toy they like. Ask the child to choose three that they would like the most.
- Rotate toys and declutter before the holiday season – Keep out fewer toys in a variety of categories – categories such as; creative or pretend play, motor activities, sensory, stacking, etc. Remember to include puzzles, books, and musical toys. Every few weeks rotate the toys from ones you have put away, this will keep your child interested and engaged with the toys they have in front of them.
- Give to someone in need – Think about what your priorities are and how you can instill lasting traditions your family could love.
